A relationship is difficult. We must each do our part to maintain it. Opposites do certain attract, but there must also be a balance and a unified set of core beliefs that can keep the relationship going. Don't think of a relationship like tug-of-war, but rather a harmonious push and pull in a unified direction. One person doing their part of pulling, and the other doing their part of pushing.
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